An Escape
November 23rd, 2008It came as a surprise to me to be honest..
I’ve been running this business for over 3 years now, and for those of you who also own a business, you know that means countless days that were longer than 8 hours. It’s just a fact of doing what we do. Long days, little pay and sometimes wondering what the heck we’re doing. The funny thing is that we get up each day, and we keep at it. We smile, we dream and we know that we’re doing what we love. Family and friends have looked at us in concern, and the brave ones have even suggested we work too hard and that we should take a break. Little do they know that for most of us, we work like this because it’s a passion, a need to do something for ourselves and to make a difference; either for us, our families or the people we serve.
So when I took my first real vacation just a couple of weeks ago, it was a complete surprise to me how quickly I forgot what day it was, what jobs we were working on and who was most in need of some attention. I can’t remember the last time that I didn’t have a fairly accurate inventory in my head of what needed to be done when, how much time was left, and who owed me money.
I found myself walking the streets of Buenos Aires, Argentina, and I was confident in knowing that when I came back, my office would still be there, things would still be getting done, and that life would move on. Of course I knew that when I got back, there would be some catch up, but I allowed to moment to overcome me and to just experience what was happening around me.
This is where I learned a secret about life. I’ve always tried to get that work/life balance thing under control and I haven’t been THAT bad at it either, but there’s a difference between taking a bit of time off for your body and taking a bit of time for your mind. I’m not saying you need to travel halfway around the world, but I highly recommend that you find a place, a way, a something or other that lets your mind drift away to a place that isn’t work, no matter how much you love what you do. Even if you don’t come back relaxed or refreshed, you will come back with a change in perspective and that will lead to good things.
Find time for yourself, it’s the best way to help others.